Welcome to the Momset Podcast where you can learn how to Raise Your Words and become the mommy you want to be in todays motherhood. We love to talk all things mindset and share good stories that apply the tools and skills being discussed on the show.

Giving less than your best is a betrayal to yourself. Yet, with perfectionism and the bags of tendencies that come with it, there seems to be an unspoken fear of striving for excellence and doing all that you can every single day. You'll be told "that's too much." "you shouldn't expect so much from yourself." "it's not realistic." Even if you enjoy waking up to a clean kitchen that reminds you of fresh starts and new days... someone will tell you that the pressure to clean it every night before bed is just too much. This is why understanding the difference between a mentality of Excellence and a mentality of Perfection will set you free. This episode takes a look at why we use perfectionism, how you can practically condition your mind out of it and what it looks like to strive for excellence AND fall short. I hope you enjoy it! Details for my coaching membership where this episode was inspired <a href="https://momset.com/membership" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">are right here</a>. Huge thanks to Danielle for being a light and someone we can learn alongside. <a href="https://www.instagram.com/tessaromero_/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Tessa Romero </a>

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139. Excellence over Perfection, 5 Truths That Set You Free

Today Ralphie Jacobs is joining the MOMSET Community to empower us to be a safe parent that sees the good in her children. You can look forward to learning about positive parenting, "junk behavior," inconsequential behavior (this blew my mind) and remarkable perspective that keeps you going even when it feels really, really difficult. Look at us- breaking cycles. "We are one generation from the "that's permissive" mentality..." "Parenting is not a societal matter. It's personal, it's spiritual and it's emotional, but it's not societal..." - Ralphie JacobsSign up for Ralphie's<a href="https://simplyonpurpose.org/teach-me-how/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer"> "Teach Me How"</a> subscription and check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/simplyonpurpose/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer"> her fantastic IG account</a> for more tools and light.

138. Positive Parenting Tools With Ralphie Jacobs

Choose quiet observations and follow it with quick, intentional corrections.A few years ago, I realized that explaining every decision to my kids—why they couldn’t have something, what I didn’t like about their behavior—only made things worse. It fueled conflict, invited pushback, and exhausted me emotionally. So I made a change.I started quietly noticing the behavior, keeping my thoughts to myself, and then making a swift correction without fanfare. Whether it was about food dyes, screen time, or behavior after movies, this shift brought peace to our home and confidence to my parenting.You'll want to get a pen and piece of paper ready for the writing exercise in the last part of this episode. It will help you experience a huge shift in mindset and self-empowerment! More details on my <a href="https://momset.com/membership/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">coaching membership</a> are right here. I'm excited to hear about your implementation of "quiet observations and quick corrections" to your daily parenting triumphs!

137. Quiet Observations, Quick Corrections. Parenting Mindset You'll Love

Mother's Day is the time you show up as the mom you want to be and set the tone of what the whole rest of the year will be like for you as a mother. Who you are, what you think, how you feel, what you do as a mother. If you want a perspective like that this Mother's Day then this episode is for you. Packed with 4 key mentalities that support this focus while remaining appreciative of what others do for you and intentional of what you do for others. If you need more help supporting your mental health and daily mindset in motherhood then my <a href="https://momset.com/membership/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">coaching membership</a> is the very best place to be. Come receive coaching, be challenged and connected to likeminded expansive women.

Tessa Romero

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